Want to know concrete signs a Scorpio man is playing you?
There are many stories about this guy in love, some are good and some are bad.
Not all are true, but they can’t be false completely, right?
He has something alluring yet dangerous about him. Those who have been in a relationship with a Scorpio have claimed that he is a player and sometimes likes to mess around with others’ hearts.
You may be not sure about his intention, and you’re also afraid of getting hurt, so it’s better to stay cautious.
Keep an eye in the following signs…
How to Tell a Scorpio Man is Playing with You?
Your Scorpio boyfriend will try hard to hide the obvious signs he is playing you, but no worry because he’s not as mysterious as you might think.
Soon he’ll realize that you can see through his suspicious behaviors.
With their devil-may-care attitude on life, this male Scorpio tends to play around. He has a strong sense of confidence, and he is good at selling himself to others. Plus, his sweet words, magnetic presence, and manipulation tactics, winning over your heart is never a big deal.
See also: Signs a Scorpio man truly has feelings for you
Here are signs he is playing you…
1. Most conversations revolve around sex
We all know that Scorpios are wild in bed, but the guys born under this sign are also deep thinkers and love communicating with intellectual people. If a Scorpio man is serious about you, he will shower you with questions so that he can get a glimpse of your true values, opinions, and interests.
However, you find that most of the things he talks to you mainly revolve around sex, then it’s the first sign a Scorpio man is playing with you.
2. No actual dates between you two
Now, let’s take a moment and think!
How many times have both of you actually hanged out for a date? Has he ever invited you to a dinner date? Where has he taken you on a date?
If all the previous dates happened at his place only, it’s one of the signs a Scorpio man is playing you. Try to find excuses for this behavior, but it can’t hide the fact that he has isolated you from the world.
You can say that your Scorpio boyfriend is the introverted, PDA type, so he does not want to date outside.
A guy who actually wanted to have you in his life wouldn’t behave like that.
In love relationships, Scorpios look for chances to impress you; therefore, even when he dislikes the crowd, he will take you out to explore different places.
3. No interested in your life
Another sign that a Scorpio man is playing you is when you didn’t see him showing any interest in your life.
Honestly, when it comes to love, he is intense and incredibly passionate. So, if the guy you are dating displays no effort in learning about you as well as things revolving around your life, it’s a clear sign that he doesn’t think about taking the relationship with you any further.
Read more: How compatible are Scorpio and Capricorn?
4. Playing with your emotions
He will make you an emotional fool all the time.
If you have gradually started realizing that he tends to act cold and distant towards you every time he did something wrong, it’s time to pick the hint. You shouldn’t let him take your kindness for granted anymore.
After showing his manipulative behavior, he will crawl back to you using sugar-coated words or sweet puppy faces. Wondering why he keeps doing that? Because you forgive him all the time!
No matter how deeply and madly you love him; it doesn’t mean Scorpio man can play with your emotions whenever he wants. If you keep letting this happen, he will continue make you suffer.
5. Make you feel bad about yourself
This is one of the most obvious signs.
If a man treats you badly, it shows that he doesn’t love you at all like he used to say.
When a Scorpio man truly has feelings for you, he will, firstly, respect and care about you. Secondly, he will try his best to make you happy and not to do anything that could hurt you.
If your Scorpio intentionally makes you feel like you’re not enough, tell yourself that he is playing with your feelings. In fact, this tactic is commonly used in toxic relationships in which the manipulator wants their target to rely on and seek validation from them.
This guy will never treat his dream girl like that.
6. Empty promises
The last sign of a Scorpio man is playing you in this article is when he makes a lot of promises without fulfilling them.
It’s sad to know that he promises you just to escape the present moment. When you bring up that topic, he’ll be like "Sorry, baby I was busy" or "Sorry, let’s do it next time, okay?" … in short, he comes up with excuses all the time!
What is the point of staying with this guy when he’s never cared about your happiness?
It’s your life, so don’t allow others to destroy it. If you don’t feel right with the relationship, simply walk away from it. No one has the right to stop you from finding your own happiness.
Check the video to see what the game Scorpio man plays…
So, what are signs a Scorpio man is playing you?
Generally speaking, once he hits you up for sex only, doesn’t take you out to meet his family or close friends, makes no future plans with you, messes with your emotions, never respects you, and constantly makes you feel guilty about yourself, he’s definitely playing you.
Don’t stay silent and let him fool you again and again.
Please note that we only discussed men whose sun sign is Scorpio here!
Not all Scorpio men in the real life are bad, so you don’t be surprised if he doesn’t fall into the stereotype.